In New York, courts do not automatically assign holidays to one parent. Instead, holiday schedules are usually determined as part of a custody or parenting time order, based on what the judge believes is in the best interests of the child.

Many courts prefer structured holiday schedules to avoid conflict. Common arrangements include alternating holidays each year, splitting holiday time between parents, or assigning specific holidays to each parent. Judges may also consider the child’s age, school schedule, family traditions, travel distance, and each parent’s ability to cooperate.

If parents can agree on a holiday schedule, courts often approve their plan. If they cannot, the court will impose a schedule designed to provide stability and maintain meaningful relationships with both parents.

If you are facing a dispute over holiday parenting time, a New York family-law attorney can help you understand your rights and seek a schedule that works for you and your child.